Through retreats, gatherings and shared faith, a growing ministry is helping single Adventists build meaningful connections and flourish in every season of life.
Single adults represent one of the most diverse groups within the Adventist Church. They span generations — from their mid-20s to their late 90s — and each person carries a unique story. Across the U.S., single adults — including those raising children — make up roughly 1 out of every 3 households. Within the Adventist Church, it is estimated to be closer to 1 out of every 4 households. Despite these numbers, many single adults quietly experience a sense of being overlooked or out of place in church life.
For some, singleness was not something they planned. A spouse may have passed away, or a marriage may have ended. Others have chosen to focus on careers, ministry or personal growth, while some appreciate the independence of living solo. Though circumstances differ, one truth remains: Everyone needs community.
In many churches, activities and sermons tend to focus on families. However, this emphasis can sometimes leave single adults feeling left out. Yet when churches intentionally build relationships with single members, they often discover some of the most dedicated contributors to ministry.
Recognizing these needs, a new ministry has been growing: Flourish Together.
The name reflects a hopeful vision: Single adults are not merely “waiting” for life to begin. Instead, they are invited to flourish where they are, growing in faith, friendship and purpose. Participants find warm communities where friendships develop naturally, gatherings that encourage spiritual growth and opportunities to serve.
God has already begun blessing this effort. In fall 2025, 73 participants from 12 states and Canada gathered for a weekend retreat at Rosario Beach Marine Laboratory. Through worship, reflection and conversation, many left with new friendships and renewed senses of belonging.
The retreat also sparked an ongoing connection. A Zoom-based small group studying How We Love now meets regularly, helping participants understand how early experiences shape adult relationships.
For some participants, the impact has been deeply personal. One attendee shared, “I had quit attending church because I just didn’t fit in. I really feel that if I had been part of a group like this years ago, I might not have drifted away from the church for so long.”
Flourish Together has also hosted social gatherings, including a Christmas musical program and fellowship activities. More recently, the first annual Connection Sabbath in February 2026 brought participants from Washington, Oregon and Upper Columbia conferences together for a day of worship, testimony and community.
Flourish Together is not simply a program to attend — it is a community to build. In every season of life, God calls His people into community, ensuring no one walks the journey alone.
Connection Sabbath brings attendees from across the Northwest together for a day of worship, testimony and community.
A Christmas gathering hosted by Flourish Together reflects the ministry’s year-round commitment to building community through shared experiences and faith.
Participants pause for a group photo during the Flourish Together retreat at Rosario Marine Station, where single adults found encouragement, friendship and renewed belonging.
